Thirst Trap Sh!t

This week, we talked about whether or not someone ought to post revealing or sexually charged/explicit pictures of themselves online when they are in a relationship. As we discussed on the podcast (and the tagline we say so often, you all are probably getting tired of hearing it!), communication is key. There is no right or wrong answer: there is only what works for you and your partner. As with everything else, though, being honest is key. It doesn’t count as communication if you saying what you think you should say :)

If you have to do it as advertising for your business, I totally get sharing skin to draw in a crowd. For me, if that isn’t why you are posting provocative pictures, there is an element of attention-seeking that makes me wonder what you aren’t getting in the relationship with me. That’s just my opinion (but this is my blog, so you are here to read my opinion, aren’t you?). I didn’t necessarily learn anything new so much as affirmed what I already knew. It is always nice to check in with your partner and see if your values are still the same. People do grow and change over time, after all!