The guys started the podcast after failing (miserably) to find other gay couples to JUST. HANG. OUT. WITH. They noticed a growing trend in gay couples experiencing open relationships or polyamory - none of which are “bad” - all of which are not their relationship model. Relationsh!t was created as a sort of counter gay narrative, showing queer couples that you can expect monogamy from your partner without looking crazy or that you’re defaulting to heteronormativity.