Marriage Sh!t

This week, we talked about marriage. A heavy topic, to be sure, and one that we haven’t discussed in a while. Marko and I checked in to see what we thought about our marriage and how we both were doing. In retrospect, this is probably something we should do more often. Even if we use the podcast as a vehicle for this, we might consider putting a bit more structure into it.

Notes for next year :) Ask each other what the other is doing well. Ask each other what we are proud of having changed or accomplished when it comes to the way we approach our husband. Ask each other what changes we have seen in our partner that we are grateful for. Ask ourselves what we still need to improve. THEN we might be in a space to safely, supportively say what we need from each other. Perhaps if we have that love bomb buffer at the beginning and then just ask for what we want, rather than blaming and finger-pointing, we might find that we are pleasantly surprised by the outcome!