Chores Sh!t

This week, we revisited the topic of the chore wars, with a new spin: we focused more on the skills you’ll need as a partner in order to end the conflict. Whether it is through clearly identifying who is responsible for which chore or thinking and feeling through what you are communicating by cleaning up after your partner, the articles we read and the discussion we had were ones that I would consider fundamental to a successful relationship. At least one where cohabitation is the plan.

As you, our listeners, all know, Marko and I never had this issue. Not really. Its not like we have never had an argument over the dishes or felt frustrated by chores not being completed. Rather, we don’t let it affect our relationship strongly. We have a good division of labor that works well for us: I do the shopping and cooking, take care of the litter box, handle the trash and the recycling, and make sure the bills get paid. He dusts and scrubs and polishes everything. He starts the laundry, I fold and put it away. It works for us. What works for you and your partner(s)? We would love to hear from you!