Relationsh!t.

A weekly podcast giving a gay look at traditional relationships and values.

Marko and Tony begin each episode by highlighting aspirational queer relationships in a segment they call #QueerRelationshipGoals. Later, they address a relationship issue and offer tools and guidance to listeners that experience similar relationship problems. Finally, guest(s) join Marko and Tony at the “Critable” to discuss queer culture.

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Season 3 Ep. 24: I Care 4 U

This week's #GayRelationshipGoals is Indian royalty. Manvendra Singh Gohil (@manvendrasinghgohil) came out in 2006, receiving an endless amount of threats and bullying seeing as how the royal family of Rajpipla had never had an out and proud gay Prince in its 600+ year dynasty. Manvendra has since become an advocate for gay rights, working to establish a shelter for LGBTQ+ people and using his platform to bring attention to it. Check out his profile and send him some love. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about something that shouldn't be a topic ... but obviously is: wearing a mask. Join them and gather their take on this war on masks and (hopefully) learn that they are more helpful than they are harmful. Finally, the guys sit down at the virtual Critable to connect with Michael and Ian (@ilovethatforyou) to find out a little bit more about their pre-covid wedding, quarantined honeymoon, and living out their podcast dreams. This is a fun episode you won't want to miss!

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Season 3 Ep. 23: Advice

Laurence Van den Keybus (@laurence_lvdk) and his boyfriend Samer Jannan (@sjannan) are this week's #GayRelationshipGoals, and once you look at their IG pages, you will know why! These guys are just about everything we love about a couple: fashion, love, cuteness overload, and a dream relationship. These guys are adorable, so make sure you check them out. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about some of the best and worst relationship advice they've ever received. Communication is the key? Get under someone to get over someone? Never go to bed angry? There is so much good and bad advice out there - what is some of the best relationship advice you've received? Finally, tune into the July edition of our Listener Shituations!

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Season 3 Ep. 22: Respect

In a Relationsh!t first, this week's #GayRelationshipGoals is a single dad that we are obsessed with! Matt Switzer (@mswitzer82) is a single dad living in Chicago with twins. Matt stole our hearts when a video of him doing his daughter's hair (and getting really good at it) crossed our paths. You see, Matt's kids are Black and as a white man, this was a very impressive accomplishment. Check out Matt's IG page and make sure you tell him the Critelli's sent you! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about relationship respect. How important is it to respect your partner, and have them respect you? In a very uncomfortable conversation, the Critelli's sit down and talk about their experience with the topic and how challenging it's been for them. Finally, the guys are joined at the virtual Critable by Vinny (@vincenz_) and Dominic (@thedonkeybear). These guys talk about their similar Italian families, coming out in their twenties, and similar they are. This is an amazing episode that you won't want to miss!

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Season 3 Ep. 21: Hate That I Love You

Brandon K. Good (@brandonkgood) and Matthew Raymond-Goodman (@matty_ray18) turned a Tindr date into a marriage and that is why they’re this week’s #GayRelationshipGoals! Five years together and a lifetime to go, these two have everything to help them go the distance. They’re incredible and you will think so too - check out their IG pages and tell them the Critelli’s sent you! Then, Marko and Tony get together to talk about loving each other, even when they hate each other. It’s a tough concept but imperative for a healthy relationship. So how do you continue to love your partner even when you can’t stand them? Finally, the guys are joined by friend of the podcast, Steve Lowe (@steeeeevn), to talk about being black and gay in America. Steve shares his feelings about the George Floyd murder, the protests, and queer culture. All this then he regales Marko and Tony with tales from a far away land called Brooklyn.

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Season 3 Ep. 20: FIND YOUR WAY BACK

It’s July 1st, and it’s business as usual with this week’s #GayRelationship goals! A wonderful couple living in New Jersey, Amit Shah (@amitaatma) and Aditya Madiraju (@mad_adiyoo) are giving the Critelli’s all the feels, with their incredible relationship and apparent joy. Check them out on Instagram so you can feel it too! Then, Marko and Tony have the honor of sitting down with author, Britt East (@britteast) to discuss his Tennessee upbringing, his coming out story, and his married life in Seattle. Even more excitingly, Britt talks to the guys about his brand new book, A Gay Man’s Guide to Life and how he came to writing such an important and meaningful manual for gay living. The Critelli’s walk him through some of their favorite excerpts from the book, and Britt explains his thoughts on topics ranging from racism, finances, and spirituality. This is an episode you won’t want to miss!

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Season 3 Ep. 19: Our House

For the final week of Pride Month, Marko and Tony are highlighting the "T" in LGBT by spotlighting Alan Hart - the first documented trans male in the US.  Also, the guys make a brief acknowledgment of all the black trans women that have experienced death and harm at the hands of others, in this country. Then, the Critelli's get together to talk about decorating your home, as a couple.  When two different aesthetics are at play, how do you and your partner manage to make your house a home? Finally, Marko and Tony sit with Lindsey Amer (@lindzamer), LGBT activist and host of numerous children-focused queer productions. They all sit down to talk about Lindsey's beginnings and upcoming projects. 

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Season 3 Ep. 18: Secret

This week, join the Critelli's as they highlight the 'B' in LGBT, and honor Diane Anderson-Minshall (@quirkygirls), a bisexual queer business maven that has made her way in this complicated world. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about secrecy within a relationship and whether or not it is good for the health of a relationship.  What is the difference between privacy and secrecy?  Tune in to find out. Finally, check out Patreon episodes of 'Critelli Crap' as a teaser for our non-Patreon listeners.  Marko and Tony air out their dirty relationship drama and ask each other for guidance ... Critelli-style. Hopefully it'll inspire you to become a member 😉.

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Season 3 Ep. 17: Fear of Flying

For week two of Pride Month, we are highlighting Larry Kramer as our #QueerHistory.  Join Marko and Tony as they learn more about this queer pioneer.  Then, the guys sit down to talk about fear within your relationship.  What are you afraid of in your relationship?  The guys explore this difficult topic.  Finally, Marko and Tony sit down to speak with Michael (@mwelke12) and Steve (@sea_me_now) to learn more about the complicated start of their relationship, and what life is like for them now.

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Season 3 Ep. 16: What's Going On?

Because it is Pride month, every week Marko and Tony will highlight someone from #QueerHistory.  This week, they are celebrating the "L" in LGBT by learning about Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon, the first ever US married same-sex couple.  These ladies spent their lives advocating for LGBT rights, and you're going to love their story.  Check it out and let us know what you think!  Then, Marko and Tony had a rough week - there is so much happening in our country and the guys sit down to talk about how it has affected them but even more ... the lives of others in the country.  And later, the guys introduce the top 3 Patreon rapid-fire questions with past guests.  If you need to smile even just for a minute, this will help.

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Season 3 Ep. 15: Thank You

This week's #GayRelationshipGoals takes us to Salt Lake City, Utah to meet Parker Hadley (@guaconmysock_) and Alex Hone (@alex.v.hone).  These gaymers and fiancés are beyond adorable, and it's their friendship that makes their relationship so strong.  We love them and think you will too, so check them out on Instagram!  Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about the (often forgotten) art of showing appreciation to your partner.  Do you thank your partner enough?  Do they know how much you appreciate them?  Find some useful ways to be a better at showing appreciation.  Finally, the guys sit down with drag queen,  Zenon TeaVee (@aszenontv) to talk about running from covid, her weight loss journey, and dating as a drag queen.  Tune in for a brand new episode!

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Season 3 Ep. 14: Case of the Ex

This week's #GayRelationshipGoals is none other than Aman Lexidor (@amanlexidor) and Armani Dodd (@armani_dodd).  These guys are living a beautiful existence and have each other to get through it all.  Not only are they gorgeous together, but their love shines through in their pics.  Check them out on IG - you won't be disappointed.  Then, Marko and Tony sit down to discuss the complicated topic of befriending exes. Do you think it is productive to be friendly with your ex? The guys go through reasons why it is and is not helpful to your future relationships and current sanity.  Finally, tune in for the May edition of our Listener Shituations.

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Season 3 Ep. 13: Music

Let's all be thankful for the relationship that is Dame and Mark (@dameandmark)! They are such an amazing couple that used the hashtag #GayRelationshipGoals to showcase their love. Make sure you check out their profile so you can show them some love too! Next, Marko and Tony talk music! What should you do when you and your partner don't have the same taste in music? This week, the guys give you some tools to help your partner love your favorite artist(s). Finally, join Marko and Tony as they touch base with Steven Zakari (@stevenlovesboa) to talk about life as an LA-based comedian (during the pandemic). The guys talk about life in upstate NY, coming out early in life, and what a new relationship looks like. Join this weeks conversation!

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Season 3 Ep. 12: Thank U, Next

This week's episode brings us the amazing relationship of Hazem Mansour (@hazemhazit) and Jonathan Lythgoe (@jtlgoes) as our #GayRelationshipGoals.  Not only are they adorable together, but they are ridiculously in love ... and it shows.  Check out their profiles and show them some love!  This week, Marko and Tony sit down to blindly talk about dating apps in today's gay landscape.  With all the apps out there, how do you know which to choose?  And, are dating apps affecting our mental health?  Finally, the guys are joined by Chris (@d.c.panda) long time listener, and first time guest!  He talks a bit about his marriage to Owen (hi Owen!) and how they've managed to make it this long, and what it takes to get to know one another the way they do. Tune in this week for another episode of your favorite podcast! 😉

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Season 3 Ep. 11: I Am Changing

Join us in highlighting this week's #GayRelationshipGoals, Daryle (@daryle_tyson) and Jeremy.  This beautiful relationship has blossomed into an amazing partnership and we are excited to see where it goes.  Check them out and follow their journey of love!  Do you ever fear that you are evolving beyond your relationship?  This week, Marko and Tony talk about the concept of growing within a relationship and ways to grow together.  Then, Marko and Tony are joined (from New Jersey) by Matt and Louie (@mattandlouie) as the guys talk about their high school beginnings and wedding future.  Follow the guys on IG for more adorable stories!

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Season 3 Ep. 10: Show Me Love

This week, join Marko and Tony as they highlight the amazing relationship of William and Joel (@selfiebears).  These guys have been together for 14 years, and the celebration of their relationship is all over their IG page, in full display!  Check them out, we know you will love as much as Marko and Tony do.  Later, the guys talk about the ways couples show love differently and how it is successful within their respective relationships.  Have you looked at a couple and wondered what makes their relationship spark the way it does?  Find some creative ways to make that happen in your own relationship, with this week's episode!  Lastly, join the Critelli's for the April edition of Listener Shitations!

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Season 3 Ep. 9: HEARD ABOUT US

This week, we are highlighting the relationship of Vinny (@vincenz_) and Dominic (@thedonkeybear) and saluting their COVID-19 efforts.  Vinny's company, The Stoned Aesthetic (@thestonedaesthetic) has redirected its focus and has been making CDC approved surgical masks for healthcare professionals in need.  In addition to being an amazingly adorable couple, they are philanthropic and that is why they are this week's #GayRelationshipGoals.  Check them out and support their cause!  Then, Marko and Tony sit down to and chat about the top 36 greatest LGBTQ+ relationships on television. Finally, the guys are joined (once again) by Paul Castle (@paulcastlestudio) and Matthew and the guys dish on all the details surrounding their wedding and what its like being a married couple!  Check out their brand new podcast, His and His!

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Season 3 Ep. 8: All By Myself

Our Minneapolis faves, Justin Rabon (@jayyrayy_) and Brad Neumann (@bradneums) are this #GayRelationshipGoals and for good reason!  Check out their profiles, and you'll see why - these two love each other SO much and it is SO obvious.  We love love, and we LOVE theirs, so check them out and you'll see why.  Then, Marko and Tony address the viral elephant in the room: Miss 'Rona (a la Miss Vanjie).  Being in a couple and being isolated has shaken relationships up a bit and the guys give some tips on how to tolerate one another and stay together once all this is done.  Finally, the fellas gather at the Critable with actor Trey Gerrald (@treygerrald) and his husband, wedding photographer David Perlman (@davidperlmanphotography).  The guys talk about the start of their theatrical relationship and how they define their marriage.  You won't want to miss this amazing interview!

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Season 3 Ep. 7: Blame it on the Rain

Long distance lovers, Brad and Eric (@brandanderic) are this weeks #GayRelationshipGoals, and the best example of love conquering all!  These two are separated by thousands of miles but continue loving one another and that is what love is all about - and why we're huge fans.  Make sure you follow them!  Later, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about how blame can harm a relationship.  When you don't take responsibility for your actions, where does the blame go?  The answer is dangerous.  Finally, the guys gather at the Critable with Kyle Martin (@kylemnyc) to discuss his modest beginnings, and his current dating experiences!  Tune in and join the conversation on social media 😀.

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Season 3 Ep. 6: I Don't Need a Man

A trip up north introduces us to our #GayRelationshipGoals for the week, (@greatcanadians) and his husband, (@gr8steeven). These Canadian lovers are incredible together and such a great inspiration for LGBTQ+ relationships. Follow them, and you'll see exactly why! Then, Marko and Tony get together to talk about the challenges of finding a man! If you're looking for a man by summer, you'll love this episode. Finally, tune in for the March edition of our Listener Shituations and tell us how you'd answer these concerns.

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Season 3 Ep. 5: A No No

This week’s #GayRelationshipGoals is the elusive yet adorable couple, (@purposemynded5). While we may not know their names, we do know they are amazing together and know how to throw an entertaining wedding. This week, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about gay relationship don’ts and finish the episode with a sit down at the Critable with Joshua Raifman (@joshraifman) to discuss his California roots and current New York dating life. Tune in, you won’t want to miss this week’s episode!

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